Welcome to Koru Life Coaching. The place to learn how to come back to yourself.

A Koru is a Maori (New Zealand's indigenous people) word meaning “a spiral,” like a silver fern unfurling. In Maori culture, it symbolizes new life, growth, peace, and tranquility. The circular shape represents constant movement while also coming back to the center of origin. A koru symbolizes how life is constantly changing, yet staying the same. Harmony is found in the balance of the chaos of change and the calmness of daily life.

I want to help you find this balance while you grow. I believe the best way to find happiness and peace is by returning to the most important relationship you have: the one with yourself. I believe that no matter what type of relationship you are in, finding yourself will improve them all.

Are you facing Relationship Problems?

Struggling in an ENM Relationship

Are you currently struggling in an ethical non-monogamy relationship? Do you feel like nobody understands where you are coming from? Let me help you find peace in your relationship without judgement or shame.

Looking to open your relationship up?

Are you looking to open your relationship up, but have fears and concerns? Schedule a discovery session and let me help you work through your fears to see if opening up your relationships is right for you.

Not feeling heard or need help communicating better?

Do you feel like you aren’t being heard in your relationship? Do you feel as if every time you try to voice your opinion you get shut down? Let’s chat and I can help you learn to communicate in a more effective manner.

Lost yourself and your self confidence

Do you feel like you are always giving, but losing yourself? Have you lost your self-confidence to stand up for yourself, your wants, and needs? Reach out to me so I can show you how amazing you are and feel more empowered.

How I can help you be happier

One-on-One Coaching

or with partners


Book a package and have regular appointments, along with access to me via text or email for any problems that come up along the way.

Schedule a Discovery Call

Courses and Programs

Courses and Programs

Need help communicating better? Need help with time management and productivity? Follow along for my courses and programs.

Check Out My Courses

Blog, Articles and Social Media

Blog, Articles, and Social Media

Check out my blog, articles and social media, where you can find tips, tricks, and life hacks all while laughing and learning with me and my life.

Follow Along

Never be ashamed of how much you love or how quickly you fall. Love fully, love completely, but most importantly, love naturally. And don't ever apologize for it. Don't ever be sorry for loving the way your heart knows. -unk

About me

I’m a Certified Relationship Coach and Registered Nurse.

Hi! My name is Stephanie McGurren, but most people call me Steph. I have grown up being exposed to only monogamous relationships. After my first marriage ended in divorce, I began to learn more about myself. When my current husband and I started dating we were enjoying the freedoms we were newly discovering. We did not want the confines of a monogamous relationship. 

Happy Clients

Here is what some of my clients are saying about me and my programs. 

I have be seeing Stephanie for the past 10 years. The one think I have taken from all these years is to look at thing from a different angle. She has given me great tools to try to see what works best for me. I would suggest anybody that's looking for some coaching to get over the hump in their life, Stephanie is your gal!!
I have had the most wonderful privilege of not only getting solid relationship advice but also meaningful life advice as Stephanie has coached me along the way through the happy, sad, rocky, unstable and emotional occurrences I’ve encountered throughout the time of our amazing friendship. Stephanie has guided me along the journey through the ups and downs, grounding me in such a way that I am forever thankful for. She helps bring me back to center, always encouraging me to be extraordinarily me. Stephanie finds a way to positively uplift while directly addressing the conflicts and struggles I’m facing and break them down to understandable elements in order to keep them from becoming too overwhelming in each unique situation I encounter. Her advice and positivity has helped give me the tools to work through the cloudiness and empower me to continue growing each time we talk. I am so thankful and grateful to not only have her as an amazing coach and mentor but to have her as an amazing friend. She continues to teach me new impactful things every single day because she’s showed me how to thrive within myself and persevere through this crazy life! I’m glad that I have the opportunity to connect with Stephanie who helps me connect with myself more and more.